thirty, flirty, & now what?

One day you wake up and you are in your thirties and everything you thought would happen in your life, doesn’t happen. What now? Where did you go wrong? It’s not that life is bad, but just different and it’s hard to find peace when most things might seems great but so many little things are. Will I get married? Have kids? Start my own company? Write that screenplay? Finish that painting? Go on that trip? Help those people? Were my dreams totally off? Did I hear God wrong?

You are always told as a young girl to pursue your dreams, to be you and the right man will find you, and to live a full life because a partner doesn’t complete you but when you have done everything right with all the best heart and intention and you are sitting here mid 30s and what? This book isn’t to frustrate, commiserate, or bash anyone, but simply to say you are not alone. Life takes turns and twist that don’t make sense, but you just gotta laugh and keep moving. Being at an accomplished age and ready to share your life, but not one is there, so what do you do. I do not have all the answers, or any specifically but what I do have is an outlook that keeps life exciting and hopeful. So cheers to laughing, some uncontrollable cries, and one big adventure, hope you enjoy it.

I wanted to write something that I would want to read, something that made me laugh, made me think, and made me know that I am doing something right yet encouraged to grow and that life is a process. Yes life is a process so just breath, stop, take a second, clear your head and breath. Now start the adventure of this blog, I hope is does what I set out to and today is my parents Anniversary so what a better day to start the flirting. (ha)